Lessons I have learned– and am still learning
on Shona in Sierra Leone (Sierra Leone), 15/Jun/2011 21:28, 34 days ago
I wrote this list during a time when I was feeling very down about life in Sierra Leone. You’ll be pleased to know I don’t feel down at the moment, in fact I am feeling particularly up! We’re always on a roller-coaster of emotions here. I didn’t post it at the time but it’s good to reflect now I am more positive. Everything on this list is still something I’ve learned and willcontinue to learn from..1) To be grateful for small miracles.2) That miracles do happen. Occasionally.3) That this is a country of unbelievable contrasts– where there are beautiful empty beaches but children die every day.4) That you can’t win every battle.5) That some battles are worth battling. You need to choose wisely. I’m still trying to acquire that wisdom.6) To expect nothing, because then the reward will be greater.7) That I can be angry. Really angry. I’m still learning how to direct that anger efficiently into something positive.8) To always try to understand the point of view of the other person.9) My limitations.10) That, no matter how much time I spend in the hospital, I will never save every child in Sierra Leone.11) That time off work is very important.12) That support from friends is invaluable.13) That I some means of escape, and will leave at the end of the year, but my national colleagues will not.14) That my family, friends, and health are really really important to me.